Meet Sabrina O. Adeyinka

“I wrote Through All the No’s because I want people to understand that life happens. Sometimes it happens in ways that can discourage us, delay us, or leave us standing still. But when that happens, we have to find a way to get back up and keep moving.

I think of it like someone trying to stay afloat in deep water. When you feel yourself going under, your first instinct may be to panic. But panic can make the struggle harder. Sometimes you have to become still, remain patient, regain your strength, and trust that you can stay afloat. Life can feel that way too.

Throughout my life, there have been stumbling blocks that brought me to a standstill—the kind that can feel like they have you in a chokehold because you don't have the answers, the support, the knowledge, the finances, the courage, or, most importantly, the guidance you need.

I have learned the importance of faith and of having spiritual guidance greater than myself. For me, that means trusting Allah, the One who created all that exists, even when I cannot see or understand what comes next.

I want this book to inspire young adults, recognize our elders and the wisdom they carry, and encourage those who may be going through difficult seasons. I want people to know that they are not alone. I want them to remember to be grateful, to keep going, and not to allow a difficult chapter to convince them that their entire story is over.

And when it becomes too hard, pause. Pausing is not the same as quitting. Catch your breath. Pray. Reflect. Regroup. Then, when you are able, go back to it and keep moving.

The truth is, I didn't think I would be writing this book now. I always knew that I wanted to write a book someday, but I certainly didn't know that Through All the No’s would come at this point in my life. That, in itself, has reminded me of something greater: we plan, and Allah plans, and Allah is the best of planners.

Through All the No’s is part of that journey.”